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  1. Linda, what a lovely picture of the three of you. I’ve been praying for your daughter and will continue to until she’s safely home. Praying for you, too. Isn’t it wonderful that we know God watches over us wherever we go?

    I’m looking forward to reading about her trip.

    Blessings!
    Jean

  2. It was hard to let my daughter go when she married right out of high school. In addition to that, her first move took her to Texas, which was about 1000 miles from home. She is closer now, but still not close enough for regular visits. It is still hard, especially knowing how little I get to see my grandchildren as well. But I can console myself in that she is a strong Christian and that she keeps herself surrounded by strong church families. We do have Skype now and that helps too.

    • That must have really been tough, Janice. But how wonderful to hear how God has held her and walked with her. I haven’t tried Skype yet, but I hear it’s fabulous! Great suggestion. Thanks!

  3. When we dropped off our first-born, Jen at college, Joe & I cried all the way home (about a 4 hours trip). When we dropped off our son, Andy, at college, I had tears in my eyes, but had real peace. When our son, Ryan went to college, I was clicking my heals together in a little ‘happy dance’ and couldn’t wait to change his bedroom into a guest room. (I painted the walls lavender!!!) I guess I matured with each leaving, but I still worried, prayed, and longed for them to be home. Each time, with each kid, God showed me His purpose for their lives, and even though it took the youngest one a LOT longer to figure that out, God has been faithful in answering our prayers. My favorite verse that I have held onto (I call it my ‘white-knuckle’ verse) is 1 Jn. 5:14-15: “And this is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him.”

  4. The book you recommend looks helpful, thanks. My girls have been out of the nest quite a while now. One is in town and one a 12-hour drive away (but she used to live in Eastern Europe). In “Parents of Missionaries,” Cheryl Savageau and I encourage parents and young adults to evaluate their relationship and work on building strong bonds before departure. Knowing you have a healthy emotional connection with your children makes the distances (there are many kinds) between you seem less daunting.

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