5 Ways to Tell if Your Child is Ready to Accept Jesus

I’m a firm believer that God works in the hearts of children just as much as he works in the hearts of adults. And I believe a child can choose to follow Jesus and mean it for life. I also think children are capable of making this important decision on thier own and should never be pressured, guilted or coerced into it. 

That said, parents are their children’s primary teachers and they have a responsibility to share Christ with their kids. Hopefully, this will lead them to accept Jesus as their Savior. But how can you tell if your child is ready to take such a huge spiritual step? How can you be sure he isn’t doing it because his friend is? How do you know he didn’t get pressured into it at church or camp? These are valid questions and concerns. Naturally, you’ll want to make sure your child understands your church’s teachings before she takes that important decision to ask Jesus into her heart. But beyond that, here are some things to help you figure it out. 

Your child is probably ready if:

1. He exhibits a love for Jesus and growing closer to Him. This might be demonstrated by his enthusiasm for going to church, having devotions at home (with or without you), and if he has a prayer life.

2. He asks questions about spiritual matters and/or looks at the world from a spiritual perspective. Does he see a sunset and say, “Look what God did?” Does he readily turn to God when he needs help? Does he wonder where God is when he sees sadness in the world? These are examples of seeing the world from a spiritual perspective.

3. He wants to share his faith with his friends. Inviting kids to join him at church or special church activities shows he’s excited about his relationship with Jesus and wants others to experience it too. Or maybe he’s one who prays for his friends. That’s another way to include his friends in his faith.

4. He understands what commitment is. Accepting Christ is a pretty awesome lifelong commitment and your child needs to understand what’s involved. A commitment is something you don’t change your mind about. It is something to be taken seriously. It means, in this case, that you’ll love Jesus and live for Him forever.

5. You reassure him about his fears and concerns. Your child may be ready emotionally and spiritually, but he may have fears about doing it. When I was a child, accepting Jesus also meant being baptized, but I was afraid of being dunked in the water. Today, accepting Jesus starts with a prayer of repentance and commitment. Baptism may not follow for a few years. But a child sometimes has fears that hold him back from praying that life-changing prayer. He may fear ridicule from his family or friends, or he may be afraid of what accepting Jesus will mean in his life. He may be afraid he’ll fail as a Christian. Your reassurance of whatever fears or concerns he may have will smooth the decision-making process for him.

I encourage you to talk to your child at least once a year about this important step. Make it a part of your casual conversation. Let him know you’ll support him whenever he’s ready to give his life to Jesus and that you trust his judgment to do it when God tells him it’s time. Seeing your child grow in his faith is one of the sweetest things you’ll get to experience as a parent. And when he finally takes the step of accepting Jesus, it’s time to celebrate!

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7 Responses to 5 Ways to Tell if Your Child is Ready to Accept Jesus

  1. What a helpful and informative post Linda! This definitely gave me some insights in helping my children on their own spiritual journey!

  2. Love this post, Linda! What great information and insight. Every parent needs to read this!

  3. Thank you, Crystal and Holly. I pulled it from my parenting blog Parenting With a Smile because I was too busy moving last week to get a new post written. Here’s the link to it if you’re interested: http://www.lindamcquinncarlblom.blogspot.com/ Thanks for your kind words!

  4. I like this insightful post. I have seen children jump on the bandwagon so to speak when they may or may not truly understand. Sometimes teachers’ enthusiasm coupled with the students’ desire to please the teacher brings about a pre-mature commitment with no lasting value which may confuse the child later in life. We want our children to accept Christ, but we don’t do them any favors if they do it to please us instead of out of a genuine love for Christ.

    • I agree, Janice, that premature comittments have no lasting value to a child and indeed can lead to spiritual confusion. Their decision needs to be from their heart, not from outside pressure. Thanks for your comment.

  5. Lovely post, Linda. My girls bring friends to church all the time. It’s nice to see. I remember when my oldest daughter was in kindergarten and one of her friends told her that God was dead. She didn’t mind settting her straight. I wish I had faith like that when I was her age.

    • Ah, yes, Cheryl. To have the faith of a child. My son was particularly steadfast in his witness as a child. I remember a specific incident when we were out for a walk that a friend rode up on his bike beside us. My son invited him to church and his friend said no and started riding away. My son ran alongside his bike trying to persuade him to come! A child’s faith is beautiful thing!

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