Father Playing with Son — Image by © Royalty-Free/Corbis

It’s almost Father’s Day, so let’s talk dads.

Dads do tons of things every day to provide for their kids. They’re pros at wrestling with them and playing tickle games. Their strength is unparalleled when it comes to carrying kids on their shoulders. They can assemble toys using a minimum of bad words in the process. Well, sometimes. But anyway, what do kids need most from Dad?

Their blessing.

There isn’t a child around who doesn’t want to know their dad is on their side and sees the good in them. Kids already know they mess up. They don’t need that reminder. But gentle correction paired with a healthy dose of blessing is a winning combination.

So dads, here is a list of 20 phrases you might use to bless your children. Use them generously and come up with some of your own.

1. I’m proud of you.
2. You’re getting really good at that.
3. I can see that you’ve grown in that difficult area.
4. You make me smile.
5. You’re so strong.
6. I admire your courage.
7. I trust your judgment.
8. It’s okay. We all make mistakes.
9. I love seeing you show such respect to ______.
10. Thank you. You’re a huge help to me.
11. You help me be a better person.
12. I learn a lot from you.
13. You’re an expert at __________.
14. Someday you’re going to make an awesome husband/wife.
15. You’re so funny.
16. You’ve got great leadership qualities.
17. You really persevered through that.
18. You have such a big heart.
19. You always make me feel better when I’m down.
20. You’re growing in your faith.